Everyone wants success, which is often perceived as the ultimate measure of our achievements. We chase it in every aspect of our lives, believing it is the only thing that truly counts. But what does it mean to be successful?
In our professional lives, we are considered successful when we complete our jobs, reach our goals, or obtain the recognition we’ve been striving for. But is that all there is to success? Does a title, a promotion, or a paycheck truly define our worth? The Bible says, “What does it profit a man to gain the whole world, yet forfeit his soul?” (Mark 8:36).
During our studying years, success is defined by passing our grades and exams and earning degrees, diplomas, and master’s degrees. We are told that we will have made it once we graduate or obtain our Ph. Ds. But does that piece of paper guarantee a fulfilling and meaningful life? Proverbs 16:16 states, “How much better to get wisdom than gold, to get insight rather than silver!”
Success manifests in various forms across different stages and roles in our lives. Whether as children, teenagers, young adults, or older people, the concept of success remains consistent: achieving and completing something with the expected positive results. But is ticking off boxes on society’s checklist the only way to measure our lives? “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind” (Romans 12:2).
What does success mean when we are married, become parents, or take on the roles of sons, daughters, brothers, sisters, uncles, or aunts? Can you imagine the weight of being successful in all these roles? Is it even possible to excel in every aspect of life simultaneously? Colossians 3:23 encourages us, “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters.”
Moreover, how are we successful as mere humans? What qualifies us as successful individuals in today’s world? What are the criteria by which we are judged as successful or failures? Is it the number of friends we have, the cars we drive, the houses we own, or the social media likes we accumulate? “But the Lord said to Samuel, ‘Do not consider hi’ appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart” (1 Samuel 16:7).
The realisation of the immense pressure society places on us becomes glaringly apparent. By the standards of this world, achieving complete success is a daunting challenge. We may only be partially successful because we might be deemed failures for not meeting societal expectations in other areas. This relentless pursuit of success seems endless. Even after death, people continue to debate whether our lives were successful or not.
As we lie on our deathbeds, we might wonder: Was my life a success or full of successes? Did I live up to the expectations of others, or did I truly live a life that was meaningful to me? Ecclesiastes 12:13 offers insight: “Now all has been heard; here is the conclusion of the matter: Fear God and keep his commandments, for this is the duty of all mankind.”
Is there a way to escape this constant evaluation? Is there a way to live a life not measured by successes and failures? Imagine a life where external achievements don’t determine your worth but something more profound. Jesus said, “I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full” (John 10:10).
Many people die with a life full of successes, yet their lives were failures because they failed at living. They might have amassed wealth, accolades, and status but lacked fulfilment, purpose, and genuine happiness. “For what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world and forfeits his soul?” (Matthew 16:26).
So, what does it take to succeed in life? How can we discover what it takes to lead a truly successful life? Is it possible that we are measuring success by the wrong standards? Micah 6:8 guides us: “He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.”
There is only one way to lead a successful life: to live as the one who created us intended. This means living with purpose, integrity, compassion, and love. It means striving to be the best versions of ourselves, not by society’s standards, but by the standards of the one who designed us. Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.”
Ultimately, to live a successful life is to live by God’s plan. There is no better way to achieve true success. This kind of success isn’t about accolades or wealth; it’s about living a life of purpose, love, and fulfilment. It’s about making a difference in the lives of others and finding joy in the journey. Remember, “Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and he will establish your plans” (Proverbs 16:3).
So, let us seek to live a life of true success that honours God and reflects His love. Embrace this journey with faith and trust in His plan for you. Make a difference, live purposefully, and find joy in every moment. You have the power to live a truly successful life as intended by the Creator.
